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2:53 PM 20 August 2008 -
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Love begins with our thoughts. We become what we think. Loving thoughts create loving experiences and loving relationships. Affirmations can change our beliefs and thoughts about ourselves and others. If we want to love someone, we need to consider their needs and desires. Thinking about your ideal partner will help recognize him or her when you meet.
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1:33 PM 13 August 2008 -
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I never dreamt of loneliness, I never thought I’d be alone. I spent my youthful days of bliss, Not for a second did I moan!
But then for the first time in my life, I came upon to realize, (blink) Nothing’s meant to last for long, The world’s full of liars and lies!
Wish I’d known the truth, The purpose of my existence, My faith, my aim, my destiny, And miles and miles of distance.
At times I ponder about where I stand Yet come to no conclusion. Shuddering insecure and all alone, My hopes, my dreams are mere delusions!
If ever I wish I could, Dart across the oceans, Just to know the difference between, Smiles and true emotions!
Never for a moment did I think, Of the unreal world we live in. I stayed up nights composing songs, Not thinking about our real sins!
Where are we? Where will we go? How will the world fall apart? With the walls closing in, with no space to breathe, With people everywhere but without hearts? (cry1)
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11:04 AM 13 August 2008 -
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Thank you for being my friend You make me feel so special Like I have no faults No pesky flaws Yet I have my share!
What is it inside you That makes you so thoughtful In such a sincere & huggable way? Is there anyone quite as Special as you!
I do my best Tripping now and then But you are such an inspiration Prodding me, propping me up In just the way I need
Thank you for being my friend You make me feel so special Like I have no faults I wish there were more Like you...
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9:50 AM 10 August 2008 -
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ਬਸਤੀ ਇਨਸਾਨਾ ਦੀ ਚ ਰਹਿਣ ਇਨਸਾਨ ਤਾ ਬਿਹਤਰ ਹੈ| ਜਿਉਦੇ ਲਈ ਘਰ ਹੋਵੇ ਮੁਰਦੇ ਲਈ ਸ਼ਮਸ਼ਾਨ ਤਾ ਬਿਹਤਰ ਹੈ|
ਤੂੰ ਮੈ ਦੇ ਝਗੜੇ ਸਬ ਮਹਜਬ ਦੇ ਨੇ, ਬਸ ਬਚਿਆ ਰਹੇ ਇਨਸਾਨ ਤਾ ਬਿਹਤਰ ਹੈ|
ਵੰਡ ਗਏ ਉਹ ਟੁਕੜੇ-ਟੁਕੜੇ ਧਰਤੀ ਦੇ, ਕਾਇਮ ਰਹੇ ਹਿੰਦੋਸਤਾਨ ਤਾ ਬਿਹਤਰ ਹੈ|
ਜੇ ਗੋਰੇ ਕੱਢ ਕੇ ਸਰਕਾਰ ਬਨਾਉਣਾ ਆਜਾਦੀ ਸੀ, ਫਿਰ ਕਾਲੇ ਵੀ ਭੱਜ ਜਾਨ ਤਾ ਬਿਹਤਰ ਹੈ|
ਸਾਨੂੰ ਜੋੜਨ ਦੇ ਉਹ ਹੀਲੇ ਕਰਦੇ ਨੇ, ਖੁਦ ਹੀ ਇਕ ਹੋ ਜਾਨ ਤਾ ਬਿਹਤਰ ਹੈ|
ਹੱਕ ਮਾਰ ਕਿਸੇ ਦਾ ਨਖਰੇ ਹਜ਼ਾਰ ਕਰਨੇ, ਰੁੱਖੇ ਮਿੱਸੇ ਇੱਜ਼ਤ ਦੇ ਮਿਲ ਜਾਨ ਚਾਰ ਤਾ ਬਿਹਤਰ ਹੈ|
ਖੂੰਹ ਲਾਸ਼ਾ ਦੇ ਨਾ ਉਹ ਆਸ਼ਿਕ ਯਾਦ ਸਾਨੂੰ, ਆਪਣਾ ਆਪ ਨਾ ਭੁੱਲ ਜਾਨ ਤਾ ਬਿਹਤਰ ਹੈ|
ਦਰਦ ਅਵੱਲੇ ਇਹ ਕਲਮ ਲਕੋਈ ਬੈਠੀ ਹੈ, ਮੱਲਮ ਸਿਆਹੀ ਦੀ ਨਾਲ ਭਰ ਜਾਨ ਤਾ ਬਿਹਤਰ ਹੈ|
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9:43 AM 10 August 2008 -
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ਕੰਡਿਆਂ ਚੋ ਖੁਸ਼ਬੂ ਦਾ ਖਿਆਲ ਬੜਾ ਔਖਾ ਏ| ਕਿਸੇ ਲਈ ਮੁਹੱਬਤ ਦਾ ਸਵਾਲ ਬੜਾ ਔਖਾ ਏ|
ਥੋਹਰ ਤੇ ਉੱਗੇ ਫੁੱਲ ਵਾਂਗ ਹੈ ਜਿੰਦਗੀ, ਮੇਰੇ ਲਈ ਜਿਉਣ ਦਾ ਖਿਆਲ ਬੜਾ ਔਖਾ ਏ|
ਕੁਝ ਪਲ ਦੇ ਵਿੱਚ ਹੈ ਡੇਰ ਹੋ ਜਾਣੀ, ਕਿਸੇ ਲਾਸ਼ ਤੋ ਪੁੱਛਣਾ ਹਾਲ ਬੜਾ ਔਖਾ ਏ|
ਕਿਸੇ ਰੁੱਖ ਲਈ ਪਤਝੜ ਦੇ ਦਿਨ ਬੜੇ ਸੁੱਨੇ, ਜਿਵੇ ਮੇਰੇ ਲਈ ਵਿਛੋੜੇ ਦਾ ਓਹ ਸਾਲ ਬੜਾ ਔਖਾ ਏ|
ਮੌਤ ਤੇ ਜਿੰਦ੍ਗੀ ਚ ਬਸ ਐਨਾ ਕੁ ਫਾਸਲਾ, ਜਿੰਨਾ ਤੇਰੇ ਮੇਰੇ ਮੇਲ ਦਾ ਸਵਾਲ ਬੜਾ ਔਖਾ ਏ|
ਅੱਗ ਲੱਗੀ ਹੈ ਜਿਗਰ ਦੇ ਅੰਦਰ, ਪੀਤੇ ਬਿਨਾ ਹੋਣਾ ਬੇਹਾਲ ਬੜਾ ਔਖਾ ਏ
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7:58 AM 10 August 2008 -
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I'm Too Big To Cry | I never stopped to realize How lonely I would be I never thought the day would come When you'd grow tired of me Your voice was never sweeter Than the day you said goodbye You'll never know how much it hurt Because I'm too big to cry If I knew then what I know now You'd still be kissing me Instead there's someone else's lips Where mine used to be I say hello and wish you well Each time I pass you by But you'll never know how much it hurt Because I'm too big to cry You never looked so wonderful As the day you walked away I used to say, "I love you" But that I could not say I can't forget you darlin' No matter how much I try You'll never know how much it hurt Because I'm too big to cry |
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8:06 AM 8 August 2008 -
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A policeman was testing 3 Joker brothers who were training to become detectives.
To test their skills in recognizing a suspect, he shows the first joker a picture for 5 seconds and then hides it. 'This is your suspect, how would you recognize him?'
The first joker answers, 'That's easy, we'll catch him fast because he only has one eye!' The policeman says, 'Well...uh.. .that's because the picture I showed is his side profile.'
Slightly flustered by this ridiculous response, he flashes the picture for 5 seconds at the second joker and asks him, 'This is your suspect, how would you recognize him?'
The second joker smiles and says, 'Ha! He'd be too easy to catch because he only has one ear!' The policeman angrily responds,
'What's the matter with you two? Of course only one eye and one ear are showing because it's a picture of his side profile! Is that the best answer you can come up with?'
Extremely frustrated at this point, he shows the picture to the third joker and in a very testy voice asks, 'This is your suspect, how would you recognize him?
He quickly adds, 'Think hard before giving me a stupid answer.' The Singh looks at the picture intently for a moment and says, 'The suspect wears contact lenses.' The policeman is surprised and speechless because he really
doesn't know himself if the suspect wears contacts or not. 'Well, that's an interesting answer. Wait here for a few minutes while I check his file and I'll get back to you on that.' He leaves the room and goes to his office,
checks the suspect's file in his computer, and comes back with a beaming smile on his face.
'Wow! I can't believe it. It's TRUE! The suspect does in fact wear contact lenses. Good work! How were you able to make such an astute observation? '
'That's easy,' the joker replied. 'He can't wear regular glasses because he only has one eye and one ear.' 
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6:06 AM 8 August 2008 -
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- Somebody is very proud of you.
- Somebody is thinking of you.
- Somebody is caring about you.
- Somebody misses you.
- Somebody wants to talk to you.
- Somebody wants to be with you.
- Somebody hopes you aren't in trouble.
- Somebody is thankful for the support you have provided.
- Somebody wants to hold your hand.
- Somebody hopes everything turns out all right.
- Somebody wants you to be happy.
- Somebody wants you to find him/her.
- Somebody is celebrating your successes.
- Somebody wants to give you a gift.
- Somebody thinks that you ARE a gift.
- Somebody hopes you're not too cold, or too hot.
- Somebody wants to hug you.
- Somebody loves you.
- Somebody admires your strength.
- Somebody is thinking of you and smiling.
- Somebody wants to be your shoulder to cry on.
- Somebody wants to go out with you and have a lot of fun.
- Somebody thinks the world of you.
- Somebody wants to protect you.
- Somebody would do anything for you.
- Somebody wants to be forgiven.
- Somebody is grateful for your forgiveness.
- Somebody wants to laugh with you.
- Somebody remembers you and wishes that you were there.
- Somebody is happy to know you.
- Somebody needs to know that your love is unconditional.
- Somebody values your advice.
- Somebody wants to tell you how much they care.
- Somebody wants to share their dreams with you.
- Somebody wants to hold you in their arms.
- Somebody wants YOU to hold them in your arms.
- Somebody treasures your spirit.
- Somebody wishes they could STOP time because of you.
- Somebody is wishing for your friendship and love.
- Somebody can't wait to see you.
- Somebody loves you for who you are.
- Somebody loves the way you make them feel.
- Somebody wants to be with you.
- Somebody wants you to know they are there for you.
- Somebody is glad that you're his/her friend.
- Somebody wants to be your friend.
- Somebody stayed up all night thinking about you.
- Somebody is alive because of you.
- Somebody is wishing that you noticed him/her.
- Somebody wants to get to know you better.
- Somebody wants to be near you.
- Somebody misses your advice/guidance.
- Somebody has faith in you.
- Somebody trusts you.
- Somebody needs your support.
- Somebody needs you to have faith in them.
- Somebody will cry when they read this.
- Somebody needs you to let them be your friend.
- Somebody hears a song that reminds them of you.
- Somebody needs you to send them this to them.
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5:44 AM 8 August 2008 -
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A blind boy sat on the steps of a building with a hat by his feet. He held up a sign which said: 'I am blind, please help.' There were only a few coins in the hat. A man was walking by. He took a few coins from his pocket and dropped them into the hat. He then took the sign, turned it around, and wrote some words. He put the sign back so that everyone who walked by would see the new words. Soon the hat began to fill up. A lot more people were giving money to the blind boy. That afternoon the man who had changed the sign came to see how things were. The boy recognized his footsteps and asked, 'Were you the one who changed my sign this morning? What did you write?' The man said, 'I only wrote the truth. I said what you said but in a different way.' What he had written was: 'Today is a beautiful day and I cannot see it.' Do you think the first sign and the second sign were saying the same thing? Of course both signs told people the boy was blind. But the first sign simply said the boy was blind. The second sign told people they were so lucky that they were not blind. Should we be surprised that the second sign was more effective? Moral of the Story: Be thankful for what you have. Be creative. Be innovative. Think differently and positively. Invite others towards good with wisdom. Live life with no excuse and love with no regrets. When life gives you a 100 reasons to cry, show life that you have 1000 reasons to smile. Face your past without regret. Handle your present with confidence. Prepare for the future without fear. Keep the faith and drop the fear. Great men say, 'Life has to be an incessant process of repair and reconstruction, of discarding evil and developing goodness…. In the journey of life, if you want to travel without fear, you must have the ticket of a good conscience.' The most beautiful thing is to see a person smiling… And even more beautiful is, knowing that you are the reason behind it!!!
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5:40 AM 7 August 2008 -
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"The Lord has no favorites; He loves all equally. The sun shines the same on fire charcoal and on the diamond, but the diamond receives and reflects the light. Most persons have "charcoal" mentalities; that is why they think that God does not bless them. The love and blessings are there; man has only to receive them."
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11:49 AM 6 August 2008 -
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Just for today, I will be happy. Abraham Lincoln--->
"most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be." Happiness is from within, it is not a matter of externals.
Just for today, I will try to adjust myself to what is and not try to adjust everything to my own desires.
I will take my family, my business and my luck as they come and fit myself to them.
Just for today, I will take care of my body.
I will exercise it, care for it, nourish it, not abuse it nor neglect it, so that it will be a perfect machine for my bidding.
Just for today, I will try to strengthen my mind.
I will learn something useful. I will not be a mental loafer. I will read something that requires effort, thought and concentration.
Just for today, I will exercise my soul at least three ways.
I will do somebody a good turn and not get found out. I will do at least two things I don't want to do, as William James suggests, just for exercise.
Just for today I will be agreeable.
I will look as well as I can, dress as becomingly as possible, talk low, act courteously, be liberal with praise, criticize not at all, not find fault with anything and not try to regulate nor improve anyone.
Just for today, I will try to live through this day only.
Not to tackle my whole life problems at once. I can do things for twelve hours that would appall me if I had to keep them up for a lifetime.
Just for today I will have a program.
I will write down what I expect to do every hour. I may not follow it exactly, but I will have it. It will eliminate two pests, hurry and indecision.
Just for today I will have a quiet half-hour all by myself and relax.
In this half-hour sometimes I will meditate, so as to get a little more perspective into my life.
Just for today, I will be unafraid.
Especially I will not be afraid to be happy, to enjoy what is beautiful, to love, and to believe that those I love, love me.
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12:17 PM 2 August 2008 -
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Afraid Of The TruthMost of us have had the experience of being in possession of a piece of truth that we were afraid to share because we knew it would not be well received. There are also instances in which we ourselves have been unable to handle some truth confronting us. This might be a small truth, such as not wanting to see that our car needs repairs because we don’t want to pay for them, or a large truth, such as not fully accepting that someone close to us is pushing us away. Usually the truth is evident, and we can see it if we choose, but we have elaborate ways of hiding the truth form ourselves, no matter how apparent it is.
For the most part, we avoid the truth because it scares us, or makes us angry, or makes us feel like we don’t know what to do. We often create our lives based on a particular understanding, and if that understanding turns out to be fully or even partially incorrect, we may feel that our whole sense of reality is being threatened. It takes a strong person to face the truth in circumstances like these, and many of us run for cover instead. Nevertheless, we can only avoid the truth for so long before it begins to make itself known in ever more forceful ways.
Ultimately, there is no way to avoid the truth, no matter how painful it is, so the sooner we let down our defenses, the better. When we know the truth and accept that we may have to adjust our lives to accommodate, we are in alignment with reality. At the same time, we can be patient with people around us who have a hard time seeing the truth, because we know how painful it can be. Whatever the truth is, we make a sincere effort not to close our eyes to it, but instead to be grateful that we have access to it. What do you think?
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